{"id":1237,"date":"2022-03-08T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-03-08T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.trulychinese.com\/blog\/?p=1237"},"modified":"2022-03-24T03:01:56","modified_gmt":"2022-03-24T03:01:56","slug":"winning-tips-to-please-your-feminist-chinese-girlfriend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.trulychinese.com\/blog\/winning-tips-to-please-your-feminist-chinese-girlfriend\/","title":{"rendered":"Winning Tips to Please your Feminist Chinese Girlfriend"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>The stakes and waters are rough in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.trulychinese.com\/blog\/celebrating-valentines-day-in-china-the-intricacies-and-peculiarities\/\">Chinese dating world<\/a>, especially when your Chinese girlfriend is a feminist. It can be challenging to date a feminist woman because you sometimes can&#8217;t seem to say anything right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, that&#8217;s probably true to any situation where you might have spurred out misogynistic or xenophobic comments about women or their culture. Somehow, you realize that there is a fine line between overly caring (men&#8217;s love language) and smothering (feminist women despise). And, sometimes, it just seems so hard to tread between these two delicate lines.<a href=\"https:\/\/media1.giphy.com\/media\/13QQkS0X62pw4M\/giphy.gif?cid=790b7611679af0aa8e8083c8a0a9bab89198d046df56dcf1&amp;rid=giphy.gif&amp;ct=g\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img src=\"https:\/\/media1.giphy.com\/media\/13QQkS0X62pw4M\/giphy.gif?cid=790b7611679af0aa8e8083c8a0a9bab89198d046df56dcf1&amp;rid=giphy.gif&amp;ct=g\" alt=\"Chinese Girlfriend\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>If that perfectly describes the situation you&#8217;re in, we are here to help! Let&#8217;s talk about some racist or chauvinistic comments you&#8217;re unaware are insensitive. Then, let&#8217;s discuss the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.trulychinese.com\/blog\/exciting-things-to-do-in-china-during-winter\/\">essential things to do<\/a> or say to please your Chinese girlfriend. Eventually, all these will help paint you as the best boyfriend!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>Tips to Win a Feminist\u2019s Heart<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h4>1. Learn about feminism and racism<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Most feminists care about recent issues in the world concerning women, social justice, and equality\u2014and your feminist girlfriend might expect you to do the same. Hence, be equipped with knowledge about what&#8217;s going on in the world. It might also be helpful to read books about feminism.<a href=\"https:\/\/media3.giphy.com\/media\/8dYmJ6Buo3lYY\/giphy.gif?cid=ecf05e471ll9yliialzp73qbpjojvmozfn006bkf1bu8qokk&amp;rid=giphy.gif&amp;ct=g\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img src=\"https:\/\/media3.giphy.com\/media\/8dYmJ6Buo3lYY\/giphy.gif?cid=ecf05e471ll9yliialzp73qbpjojvmozfn006bkf1bu8qokk&amp;rid=giphy.gif&amp;ct=g\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>As a feminist&#8217;s boyfriend, they&#8217;d want to be able to discuss these issues with you. They&#8217;d like to trade insight and understand your stand about it\u2014which they could use as their metric of how you&#8217;ll treat them. And, the only way for a positive conversation to transpire is if you&#8217;re as knowledgeable and sensitive about a specific topic as your Chinese girlfriend is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4>2. Respect her opinion<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>A free and easy flow of communication where a woman can openly express her thoughts is vital when dating a feminist Chinese girlfriend. Feminists hate it when you dismiss their opinion as to if it doesn&#8217;t matter.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img src=\"https:\/\/media3.giphy.com\/media\/l378zcPFWksc8wYxi\/giphy.gif?cid=ecf05e47zj1t83eyedumpzjorde2ulj5wxinc3rzg97gae2y&amp;rid=giphy.gif&amp;ct=g\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/media2.giphy.com\/media\/WpJCCSYXNpQlU3O86A\/giphy.gif?cid=790b76119aa6e820efcd358ba55575046d95f771cad8a175&amp;rid=giphy.gif&amp;ct=g\"><\/a>As a feminist&#8217;s boyfriend, engage in healthy debates and discussions with them. Keep calm and let her voice her thoughts even when you don&#8217;t share the same sentiment about a specific subject.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4>3. Stop comparing them with your previous Asian or Chinese girlfriends<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether you&#8217;re <a href=\"https:\/\/everydayfeminism.com\/2016\/04\/flirting-asian-women\/\">talking about your previous Asian or Chinese girlfriends<\/a> to make her jealous or prove you&#8217;re not racist, stop!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<center><div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.trulychinese.com\/client\/signup?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=banner&amp;utm_content=Meet%20Chinese%20Singles%20Today\"><img src=\"https:\/\/www.trulychinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/TrulyChinese-728-x-250-px.png\" alt=\"\u201c\u201cBrowse\u201d\" chinese=\"\" singles=\"\" class=\"wp-image-137\"><\/a><\/figure><\/div><\/center>\n\n\n\n<p>Conversing about your previous relationships or the lessons they brought to you is a healthy and essential part of your romantic connection. However, when it becomes specifically racialized, it seems like you&#8217;re conflating both &#8220;Chinese girlfriends&#8221; into one person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You should never treat your previous girlfriend&#8217;s race as an outstanding qualification of your openness to date women of color. Often, when you do that, your feminist Chinese girlfriend might think you&#8217;re treating your romantic partners as a cultural tour guide.<a href=\"https:\/\/media2.giphy.com\/media\/Zd6fIDwFnS2ODno3KR\/giphy.gif?cid=ecf05e471pq1esdrxdqn0gg6tglf5qh5qztx9qtfjtzs5j77&amp;rid=giphy.gif&amp;ct=g\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img src=\"https:\/\/media2.giphy.com\/media\/Zd6fIDwFnS2ODno3KR\/giphy.gif?cid=ecf05e471pq1esdrxdqn0gg6tglf5qh5qztx9qtfjtzs5j77&amp;rid=giphy.gif&amp;ct=g\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Be sensitive when sharing your past connection with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.trulychinese.com\/blog\/the-captivating-singaporean-dating-scene-you-should-know-of\/\">Asian or Chinese girlfriends<\/a>. Don&#8217;t act as if you&#8217;re already a cultural expert just by dating someone from China or as if that already qualifies you to date another of the same race.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead of bringing up topics about your previous Asian or Chinese girlfriends, talk about the fundamental values you share. You can also discuss where you want your relationship to go or your plans for the future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4>4. Don&#8217;t patronize them<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Steer clear from the notion that your Chinese girlfriend will appreciate you bringing up out-of-the-topic subjects as a response to their racial identity. There are ways to be respectful, sensitive, and knowledgeable of cultures outside your own without being patronizing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hence, it might be off-putting to blurt your trip to Thailand or on your \u2018expertise\u2019 in using chopsticks with your Chinese girlfriend\u2014it might even annoy them.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/media2.giphy.com\/media\/X99a60U275IoswZqZt\/giphy.gif?cid=ecf05e47d7tmifj0bnzdbmbixgg5muxnpkg6qdpc4ef13cec&amp;rid=giphy.gif&amp;ct=g\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img src=\"https:\/\/media2.giphy.com\/media\/X99a60U275IoswZqZt\/giphy.gif?cid=ecf05e47d7tmifj0bnzdbmbixgg5muxnpkg6qdpc4ef13cec&amp;rid=giphy.gif&amp;ct=g\" alt=\"Chinese Girlfriend\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>If you happen to travel extensively, love to read about different places, or try new things, that\u2019s awesome. Those are super interesting things and are great ways to find points of connection with another person. But, these things should come out flawlessly of the conversation, rather than forcefully inserted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4>5. Steer clear from societal or cultural norms<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>When dating your feminist Chinese girlfriend, don\u2019t pressure them to do something they don\u2019t want. Don\u2019t decide for the both of you or impose your beliefs on them. While your feelings are valid, their choices are also important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\" align=\"center\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.trulychinese.com\/client\/signup?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=banner&amp;utm_content=Meet%20Chinese%20Singles%20Today\"><https:\/\/www.trulychinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/TrulyChinese-728-x-250-px.png\" alt=\"Meet Chinese Singles\" class=\"wp-image-31\"><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, it isn\u2019t mandatory for a guy to <em>always <\/em>pay the bill\u2014at least not for your feminist girlfriend. They cringe at the idea of someone else buying them dinner as it might also mean they\u2019re being bought.<a href=\"https:\/\/media3.giphy.com\/media\/l378zcPFWksc8wYxi\/giphy.gif?cid=ecf05e47zj1t83eyedumpzjorde2ulj5wxinc3rzg97gae2y&amp;rid=giphy.gif&amp;ct=g\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This whole notion is also the most common reason why feminists don\u2019t marry a guy for his money. They don\u2019t want to be treated like prized porcelain dolls\u2014makes a guy famous among his friends but easily breakable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img src=\"https:\/\/media2.giphy.com\/media\/WpJCCSYXNpQlU3O86A\/giphy.gif?cid=790b76119aa6e820efcd358ba55575046d95f771cad8a175&amp;rid=giphy.gif&amp;ct=g\" alt=\"Chinese Girlfriend\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Rather than imposing your choice on your feminist Chinese girlfriend or boxing her into <a href=\"https:\/\/www.trulychinese.com\/blog\/dating-taiwanese-women-101\/\">cultural norms<\/a>, let her decide for herself. Give her ample space to do things she loves, and let her pay the bill\u2014or split it! They\u2019d also fall madly in love with you if you encourage them to become financially independent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4>6. Love them as they are<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>There is a famous line in the classic TV show <em>Friends<\/em> that goes, \u201dImagine the worst things you think about yourself. Now, how would you feel if the one person that you trusted the most in the world not only thinks them too, but actually uses them as reasons not to be with you?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/lh4.googleusercontent.com\/48e8F5TB3Xrb_hJs4zblE64ld3imoLdzFBmN-ohS4pakX-Wiaq9Xkia8s_VcJibzzWzVTViIfu1yesq33sjwLUpjDP7xq_OV5KMO4ESrg1YI4vVSBktVUnNWr1Mp-CnQHFh-zFU\" alt=\"Chinese Girlfriend\" width=\"515\" height=\"773\"\/><figcaption>via <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/photos\/xMNel_otvWs\">Unsplash<\/a> by <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/@dariusbashar\">Darius Bashar<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>This line makes sense, especially if you\u2019re the type to change a person. True, your intentions are good, but it might hurt your relationship in the long run\u2014it will annoy your feminist girlfriend! Embrace your girl\u2019s imperfections and be a beacon of positivity in her life while you do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>Final thoughts\u2026<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Boxing your feminist Chinese girlfriend into a closed space is the easiest way to lose them. Feminists are loud for a reason.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For the most part, feminists are expressive about their feelings because they want to stop lurking on the side, waiting for someone to notice their stories. And, as a feminist&#8217;s boyfriend, it&#8217;s your job to make them feel heard and understood.<a href=\"https:\/\/media4.giphy.com\/media\/gXS6CJ1aKVdVrLvfaP\/giphy.gif?cid=790b7611805339833110a3fb027160c1e1e327cd753ee93f&amp;rid=giphy.gif&amp;ct=g\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img src=\"https:\/\/media4.giphy.com\/media\/gXS6CJ1aKVdVrLvfaP\/giphy.gif?cid=790b7611805339833110a3fb027160c1e1e327cd753ee93f&amp;rid=giphy.gif&amp;ct=g\" alt=\"Chinese Girlfriend\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, since it&#8217;s Women&#8217;s Day, go buy your girl something cool like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elle.com\/uk\/life-and-culture\/culture\/articles\/g31393\/feminist-interior-ideas-art-print\/?slide=16\">a book about feminism<\/a> or donate to a cause\u2014like the <a href=\"https:\/\/thelovelandfoundation.org\/\">Loveland Foundation<\/a>\u2014in their name. You can also offer your time and go to the Women&#8217;s March with them.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The stakes and waters are rough in the Chinese dating world, especially when your Chinese girlfriend is a feminist. It can be challenging to date a feminist woman because you sometimes can&#8217;t seem to say anything right. Well, that&#8217;s probably true to any situation where you might have spurred out misogynistic or xenophobic comments about women or their culture. Somehow, you realize that there is a fine line between overly caring (men&#8217;s love language) and smothering (feminist women despise). And, sometimes, it just seems so hard to tread between these two delicate lines. If that perfectly describes the situation you&#8217;re in, we are here to help! Let&#8217;s talk about some racist or chauvinistic comments you&#8217;re unaware are insensitive. Then, let&#8217;s discuss the essential things to do or say to please your Chinese girlfriend. Eventually, all these will help paint you as the best boyfriend! Tips to Win a Feminist\u2019s Heart 1. Learn about feminism and racism Most feminists care about recent issues in the world concerning women, social justice, and equality\u2014and your feminist girlfriend might expect you to do the same. Hence, be equipped with knowledge about what&#8217;s going on in the world. It might also be helpful to read books about feminism. As a feminist&#8217;s boyfriend, they&#8217;d want to be able to discuss these issues with you. They&#8217;d like to trade insight and understand your stand about it\u2014which they could use as their metric of how you&#8217;ll treat them. And, the only way for a positive conversation to transpire is if you&#8217;re as knowledgeable and sensitive about a specific topic as your Chinese girlfriend is. 2. Respect her opinion A free and easy flow of communication where a woman can openly express her thoughts is vital when dating a feminist Chinese girlfriend. Feminists hate it when you dismiss their opinion as to if it doesn&#8217;t matter.&nbsp; As a feminist&#8217;s boyfriend, engage in healthy debates and discussions with them. Keep calm and let her voice her thoughts even when you don&#8217;t share the same sentiment about a specific subject. 3. Stop comparing them with your previous Asian or Chinese girlfriends Whether you&#8217;re talking about your previous Asian or Chinese girlfriends to make her jealous or prove you&#8217;re not racist, stop! Conversing about your previous relationships or the lessons they brought to you is a healthy and essential part of your romantic connection. However, when it becomes specifically racialized, it seems like you&#8217;re conflating both &#8220;Chinese girlfriends&#8221; into one person. You should never treat your previous girlfriend&#8217;s race as an outstanding qualification of your openness to date women of color. Often, when you do that, your feminist Chinese girlfriend might think you&#8217;re treating your romantic partners as a cultural tour guide. Be sensitive when sharing your past connection with Asian or Chinese girlfriends. Don&#8217;t act as if you&#8217;re already a cultural expert just by dating someone from China or as if that already qualifies you to date another of the same race. Instead of bringing up topics about your previous Asian or Chinese girlfriends, talk about the fundamental values you share. You can also discuss where you want your relationship to go or your plans for the future. 4. Don&#8217;t patronize them Steer clear from the notion that your Chinese girlfriend will appreciate you bringing up out-of-the-topic subjects as a response to their racial identity. There are ways to be respectful, sensitive, and knowledgeable of cultures outside your own without being patronizing.&nbsp; Hence, it might be off-putting to blurt your trip to Thailand or on your \u2018expertise\u2019 in using chopsticks with your Chinese girlfriend\u2014it might even annoy them.&nbsp; If you happen to travel extensively, love to read about different places, or try new things, that\u2019s awesome. Those are super interesting things and are great ways to find points of connection with another person. But, these things should come out flawlessly of the conversation, rather than forcefully inserted. 5. Steer clear from societal or cultural norms When dating your feminist Chinese girlfriend, don\u2019t pressure them to do something they don\u2019t want. Don\u2019t decide for the both of you or impose your beliefs on them. 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